Well yes; I have testicles the last time I checked. I'll agree with you male subs go through far more humiliation than female subs and as you stated Dommes usually enjoy inflicting orgasm denial on their pathetic dick-weeds. However; with all due respect in regards to electric torture which I have been victim to a few months ago by a Pro-Domme, is and can be extremely painful. Far worse in the minds of male subs under a variety of different types of grueling and invasive electric CBT torture. But electric anal torture can be very intensive if a Mistress chooses to be one mean sadistic bitch equally on female/male submissives. I had given Maitresse Madeline a passing heads up in a thread quite a few months ago. I was kinda hoping Mistress Bobbi Starr might bring some of her electrics to Divine Bitches during her visits. Nada so far.

When I was a young teen I used to play war games with cousins using a couple of cattle prods on my uncles farm, so I have a fond recollection about what its like to be on the receiving end of this device. And as far as electric CBT shock torture on male subs, there is considerable likewise pain that can be inflicted on female subs with a combination of electric vaginal/anal plugs that can be made to feel like painful cbt torture where the female sub feels pain in her ovaries. Ask any women who's been in an unwanted fight between another women and had her pussy kicked hard. Feels much the same as a guy who gets his nads kicked or slapped around by a Mistress. Perhaps my calling male subs pussies was a little unsavory. Where else here at Kink.com are electrics used as a means of BDSM torture beside Wired Pussy and Electric Sluts? The use of electrics at Divine Bitches is very limited. Finally; what would really be wrong seeing a sane competition of BDSM pain threshold between male and female subs? At the very least it would be entertaining.

I see and respect your viewpoint. My ideas in this whole thing wasn't from a Dominant males prospective. Besides I'm a Straight submissive, so my idea was seeing both female and male subs controlled by Mistresses. Somehow I understand though not verified that most male members at Kink.com are into being Dominant role models, though I stand to be corrected. My being Submissive by choice is because I enjoy the company of women who are both dominant and submissive in nature and have a love and respect for them. I suppose my hang-up with beautiful dominant women would be the reverse of dominant men who enjoy the company of women. You were saying men process pain differently than women. Perhaps there's a certain acquisence of psychological truth in this; but not all men are the same as with women. Some having less pride or ego in not being afraid to show their vulnerability which I find more of a strength than a weakness persay when it comes to BDSM enjoyment. Is it unmanly for a male sub to cry under duress in front of his Mistress? I don't believe it is as long as humaness survives in the true art of BDSM. One should also remember that the transference of Pain itself endured in BDSM at many levels of discipline is much more than it being strictly physical in itself. To bad there wasn't a Forum here at Kink.com where both female and male submissives could share respective insights. At any rate to reiterate I respect your viewpoints. 

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I can't say anything in reply really except for a big grin.