I was out last night with a good buddy, who is convinced if I wrote a book about how to get girls to cum that it would be a top seller. Well, I am not so sure about that but it did strike me that sometimes getting girls to cum can be a little like trying to find the Bat Cave - difficult to do, hard to remember how you got there, and unsure of how to get there again! So I thought I would kill two orgasm questions with one blog - one, how can you get girls to cum and two, why vibrators are on FM.

One - this is just opinion and believe me I know that no two girls cum the same way. But having said that, here's a little clit 101.

I know this seems like a no brainer but you need to spend a little time here and from experience, I would offer this - do NOT go directly to the jack pot pussy hole! Now, I'm not saying you need to seduce, cuddle, lick and talk about your feelings before fucking - Hell NO! But even when it's quick and dirty - I would recommend rubbing the sides of the vagina around the clit before going right for it. This is a great tease. Dip into her wet pussy or spit on your hand or get a little lube on fingers as this will lessen friction and get her ready for you to go for the senstive clit. Don't stroke too fast, just slip along the sides, spliting your finger around her clit. Then after a little or a lot of this stroking, depending on how long you want to do it or better yet how long she can stand the teasing, get three of your fingers rubbing together over her whole clit. Again, be sure it's well lubed with the above mentioned. Using the pads of three fingers with an alternating soft and firm pressure will spead out the stimulating feeling and avoid too much pressure in the wrong spot. Don't rub too quickly or too hard unless she asks you to - just imagine you are spinning a record on a turn table with your fingers, not spinning a fucking lettuce dryer! After as much or as little of this, slip in your cock or your other fingers inside and fuck her.

Something I find hot is getting her hand down there with yours - she knows what she likes. Lastly, let the woman use a vibrator if she wants to - i have heard way too often that guys don't like toys in bed. It's her clit, it doesn't make you less than good, it just makes it better. And hell, try it on the underside of the head of your dick too! Don't be jealous of plastic, she uses it when you are not there anyway!

Second, a question or sometimes complaint that comes up on FM is that girls use vibrators or the hands to get off. Some believe the machines should just do it all in particular since they don't have the same human elements that sometimes inhibit a girl's orgasm - like getting tired, cumming first, or simply fucking the wrong way. It's extremely rare for women to get off from penetration alone. Think about it - when you are shagging - SOMETHING is stimulating the clit - be it your pelvis, or balls or a hand. And vibrators often counter the intense force of the machines since the machines do not quit. I am working on an attachment that would stimulate pelvic rubbing/grinding for the clit. I think a giving material like the head of the magic wand, or molded silicone loaded on a spring that acts in alternating motion with the dildo/shaft would be ideal. I am open to suggests here so if you think you have a good idea for this - send me a private message or respond to this blog.

And please, the ladies of Fuckingmachines, reply and let me know your thoughts too! I've machine shagged over 100 babes but this by no means makes me an expert, just a pervert

Stay tuned and let me know if this is helpful, and if so, I'll write about how to get girls to squirt....

Tomcat