I'm a 24 y/o female, new to both submissive play and sex in general (ok, haven't actually had sex yet, but working up to it). I'm in a long distance relationship with a dominant man, and we are exploring the D/s life. We both like anal play, mild bondage, oral, role play, among other things. Currently we are talking about submissive headspace, and how to separate our play from normal life. Our recent online sessions have involved toys, commands, a gag, and will soon involve sub jewelry. How can I better get into subspace, and what are some accessories/positions/commands that are good for a beginner?